Question : My dad was my everything. He taught me to do everything a girl needs to know in this world but he left me. He left me all alone in this world. The world feels so empty without him. I am so confused about myself, career, relationship. I have no one to share. I am just this one person in the big world without a shoulder to cry. Please help me Teentalker
Dear Teentalker,
Thanks for writing to us. I am so sorry for the sad demise of your dad. I can really understand the pain you are going through. But death, is really inevitable. Loss of a parent can never be fulfilled by anyone else, and seems like you were really close to your dad, which makes it more difficult. Life may seem negative at present, I know you are feeling that everything is going against you, but things will change gradually.
Cherish all the good memories that you have with your dad, and writing down these would be a good option too. I’m glad that you shared so much with us, and this requires a lot of courage. You have to look forward.Life doesn’t stops even when somebody leave us behind.Happiness and sorrows are part of life.
You are educated and young who has a lot of energy to do some constructive in life. Time is a great healer. Start making some other friends, socialize more, do some meditation(if you can), start pursuing some hobby as well. Have faith in God. Remember, your father is still watching you. His soul is still with you. So, you have to be stronger and achieve something in your life. You have a bright future. Ofcourse, all of us face confusions in our life but they are of temporary nature.
Don’t ruin your future and present. Move on. Hope this helps, should you have any other query do connect online for chat between 11am-8pm or drop us an offline message.
Regards,
Expert Teentalk India